“All of us have within us this amazing capacity to manifest and attract anything we want into our lives,” – Dr. Wayne Dyer
Ever wonder why some people seem to walk around with a dark cloud hovering over them and others appear to bring their own sunshine wherever they go? While one group tends to be generally unhappy, finds things to complain about, and nothing seems to go their way, the other group can walk the exact same earth finding gratitude in everything around them, keeping up a positive outlook, and easily creating the lives they want. In both cases, these individuals are very much creating their own destiny as the law of attraction is at work with the basic principle: Like attracts like. Simply put: If you focus on positive things, you will get positive results. If you focus on negative things, you’re going to attract negative results.
Don’t get me wrong. You can’t just say, “I want a million dollars,” focus all of your attention on that desire and then voila: instant millionaire. There’s more to it than that. Actual hard work, for one thing! But, there is a spiritual element to it as well. Sometimes the universe has other plans for us, or we just aren’t ready to receive yet.
A couple of years ago I read a book that helped to completely change my life and my perspective of my future; that book was Wishes Fulfilled by Dr. Wayne Dyer. In the book Dr. Dyer explains how to master the art of manifesting — or, in other words, how to attract what you want into your own life.
That may be a hard concept to understand especially for those of us who believe that we have little to no control over the things that happen in our lives. The truth is, that we indeed can control our experiences we just have never been taught how. The art of manifestation is often discussed alongside the law of attraction, but, according to Dr. Dyer, there is a fundamental difference between the two ideas.
If you’ve read the book “The Secret” then you know that the overall message teaches us that in order to get what you want you must speak it into existence, but what’s missing from that concept is that you also have to say “I will attract into my life what I am.” You get what you are rather than what you want.”
To do this, Dr. Dyer says that you must be in alignment with your source, with God. This doesn’t mean simply wishing for something and expecting it to appear. “You can’t go around and ask these divine beings — angels, whatever you want to call them — to ‘help me out,'” Dr. Dyer says. “You have to become like they are.”
You have to be it in your mind before it manifests into your reality. When I decided that I wanted to have a child I did things and acted in the way I would have if I was pregnant. I stopped drinking alcohol, I began taking pre-natal vitamins, I started eating healthier. I wasn’t pregnant yet in reality, but in my mind I was. I was calling into my life that which I wanted by being it and by doing so I indeed became pregnant after many years of trying with no success. I can personally attest to the power of purposefully attracting and manifesting because once I shifted my thinking my outcome changed.
Dr. Dyer believes that by placing into your imagination what you want and assuming the feeling of that wish as already fulfilled, you go through your life feeling that and then it’s only a matter of time before reality catches up to the vision you have planted in your imagination.
Tips on Allowing the Law of Attraction to Work for You:
Is it meant to be? Use your inner light as a guide. The musical key of your life’s symphony must be in harmony with the desire you wish to manifest. In other words, there needs to be a strong connection with what you want and what you’re destined for. I have had plenty of “pouty” moments in my days after working so hard for something and coming up short in the end. But after the fact, I always came to realize that there was a reason something didn’t happen exactly how or when I wanted it to. Don’t let this stop you from trying because trying and failing is better than not trying at all. You just have to trust your gut and have faith in your instincts, which will become stronger the more you become self-aware. A meditation practice also helps bring more insight. Some good questions to ask: Is this desire in line with my life’s passion and purpose? Is my intention positive and for the greater good of many and not just rooted in self-interest? If the answers are “yes” and something in your gut is telling you to go for it, than chances are you on the right path.
Hold powerful visions. Now that you’ve identified your desires and they feel intuitively right: Imagine yourself as actually having achieved your dream already. In this visualization, really see and believe it. Incorporate all of the senses: How does it feel, smell, tastes and sound? Think about all of the important aspects of your life and what they look like when this happens. What were some of details that surrounded getting there? Writing out your vision story is a very productive and powerful tool as it helps to make your dreams seem more real, brings your vision into focus in your present situation and triggers your subconscious into action.
Identify blocks and fears… and believe! You have to really believe in yourself and your vision. It’s not a matter of if you can, but when you can. Self-doubt is a form of negative thinking that will actually prevent your dreams from manifesting. Believing is receiving! The more you resonate with your fears, the more likely you will make them come true instead of allowing your real desires to manifest. For example, if you have a fear of public speaking and focus on all the things that could possibly go wrong before your speech — don’t be surprised if you fall flat on your face when you get on stage for your big moment. Literally! To avoid this, try noticing any internal resistance or self-doubt that comes up when you think about your desire and realize that both fears and desires exist only in the mind. It is best to identify any fears or roadblocks as soon as possible so you can accept them and move forward despite them. If the little voice of self-doubt in your mind is too loud to allow you to move forward or you are not sure what is holding you back, consider working with a business or life coach to help you work through it.
You’ve got to work! You’ve set a positive intention; now focus your energy on its manifestation for the highest good. It’s not magic, though. If you want it bad enough, you’ll need to roll up your sleeves and put in the time and effort to make it happen. The more systematic you are in the execution stage, the better results you will see. Start setting goals and creating new daily habits to help inch you towards making your vision story a reality. Have an accountability system in place whether to yourself, friends and family, or to a coach. Remember to celebrate all of your small successes along the way. Having a vision is a great start and often referring back to it is very powerful. However, remember, “Vision without execution is hallucination.” — Thomas Edison.
Trust and allow. Don’t get tripped up in your wants and desires. Have faith and confidence that if/when it is meant to happen, that it will. Keep your eyes and mind open for clues in the universe that will tell you if you are on the right path, or if you might need to tweak your vision slightly (or vastly, even!). Remain living in the now, while you ever-so-loosely and delicately hold onto your dreams and allow them to unfold as they are meant to. If you are totally focused on what you want for your future, than you are focused on manifesting more of what you don’t have. Trust and allow that things will play out as they are supposed to while you gently help to guide things along. There is perfection in everything that happens along the way. Enjoy the journey!
2 thoughts on “The Art of Manifesting Your Dreams”
Excellent post Nancy! I’m taking notes 🙂
Thank you Gen 😊