The worst thing parents and care takers can do to their children, in my opinion, is to feel sorry for them. As a Brooklyn born Puertoriqueña, I call it the curse of the “bendito”. In my family we have used the term bendito way too many times. From when little Juan falls and scrapes his knee to when Doña Maria’s roof caves in from a tropical storm. The phrase is used in pretty much every situation to denote sympathy or frustration and while some things do garner sympathy the truth is that there will be many experiences we have no control over. We have to teach our children how to rise above their circumstances. Continue reading (The Mami Chronicles) The Curse of Bendito: How to raise confident kids
It has been two years since my daughter was born and every night while putting her to sleep I think about the person she will one day become. I think about the daunting task parents have in raising confident, kind, and productive members of society. I sit in her dark bedroom and also think about the challenges she will one day face and my heart … Continue reading The advice I wish someone would have given me as a kid
I think it’s important to know that most women can look at a man and know from the first interaction if “he can get it”. So in about 5 minutes women know whether or not we’re going to sleep with you. Continue reading Birthday Sex….Really?!?!?!
“Be fearless in all you do. “Never let the fear of striking out get in your way.” – Babe Ruth “Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another stepping stone to greatness.”-Oprah Winfrey “The only man who never makes a mistake is the man who never does anything.” – Theodore Roosevelt “The future belongs to those who prepare for … Continue reading Some Of My Favorite Quotes….