I love my shoes like any other woman A slave to what’s trendy, Fendi, Gucci, & Louboutins I’ll admit I’m a victim too But there’s more to me than a sexy shoe Don’t be fooled by my pretty face The way that I strut Or the size of my waist The way that my hair flows down my back Or the sound of my heels … Continue reading My Stilettos
As humans we are born with the gift of choice! From the time we are children, we begin to grow into ourselves. We do this by choosing which toys we like to play with the most, which friends we like best and even which foods we eat. As we grow older our choices demand greater contemplation. With age comes the realization that what we choose … Continue reading When It Comes To Love Can We Choose Who We Fall In Love With?
I think anyone who is an adult has had “First Date Sex”. Regardless of the level of respect we have for ourselves, I think at least once, we have all been swept away in a steamy moment. Now, does this qualify as a bad move? I think it does in regards to the role a woman plays. Though we feel we are mature enough … Continue reading First-Date Sex:: Is there a double standard?
We often hear how we should have a great self esteem and have a healthy sense of self. Whether it’s being said by family or friends, I can totally agree. But, what happens when not only we think we are worth an abundance but the opposite sex seems to think so too? It would be nice to say that this is highly appreciated. But, I’ve … Continue reading “Hot Commodity”
So, what’s the hoopla with the term “FRIEND”? It seems that practically the whole world has fallen victim to this epidemic. It’s a circumstance of denial and untruth. This word is now an easy pretense to putting true meaning to what a relationship might really be. It appears that “friend” has been substituted for – Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Mistress, Ex, and any other imaginable un-platonic connection … Continue reading Are We Really Just “Friends”?
Marriage. Growing up I always believed that was where I would be at this age; happily committed to someone, who would love me unconditionally. Now, a week shy of 25 years old, I realize that it is one of the least important things on my to-do list. When did this happen? Was it in between all of the foul relationships or all of those hilarious … Continue reading Marriage:: Is It Something We Really Want?
Hello loyal readers. It’s been a little over a year since I started this blog and the reception and love that I have received is overwhelming to say the least. For the past year everything written on here has been my own personal thoughts, opinions, and experiences. This year I want to re-vamp it and shake things up a little so I have decided to … Continue reading ::Welcome To H♥rtbreak 2.0:: Allow Me To Re-Introduce Myself!
By Vanessa Quiles Didn’t matter that our basis began faceless. For I was enamored off of the language he spat in phrases. Never was I played with. Instead, he taught me how to dance, to the cadency of his rages! Grabbed the pen from my hand and scribbled life back onto my blank pages. Damn his love…..contagious! At times I’ll sit alone, retrace … Continue reading L.O.V.E.
I am intellectually beautiful. My mind is my greatest asset. While most focus on their physical beauty, I concentrate on enriching my mind, spirit and soul because with time, even beauty fades. Don’t be fooled by the media or by what society deems as beautiful. Those who only see physical beauty have not evolved enough to realize that there’s more to beauty than meets the … Continue reading Intellectual Beauty
Everyone wants to be in a relationship. There’s something about being with someone that makes us feel complete. Maybe it’s knowing that you can count on that person whenever you need them or maybe its feeling loved and appreciated by your significant other. Whatever it is, the bottom line is that everyone wants to be loved. After all, feeling loved and wanted is a basic … Continue reading When It Comes To Relationships How Ready Are You??
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