I have been loved, admired and adored, but I have never been loved they way he loves me. The way he looks at me, the way he holds me. He puts my life into persepective. His love is so honest and so genuine. I, to him, am his life. I am the only woman that will be in that place of his heart. He holds me … Continue reading He Is…The Love of My Life
There are so many possible scenarios and ways that things could have turned out but if we alter those decisions that where made way back when,we inevitably alter our lives and our future. We would not be who we are today.I guess I’ll never know but it makes me wonder "What If"? I think most of us wonder what our lives would be like if we had made other decisions throughout the course of our lives.
Is life really just a big "What If"???
When it comes to love/relationships views by the opposite sex often clash. Women are often perceived as being needy, clingy, insecure beings that leech on to any man that comes along because apparently every woman is searching for her knight in shining armor to ride in on his horse and save her. Men are perceived as being these God like creatures who have their pick … Continue reading Reality Check: You’re NOT Mr. Right, you’re Mr. Right Now!
I’m sitting here listening to Maxwell’s sexy new album BLACKsummer’s night and as I listen to him sing about love I’m wondering does happily ever after really exist? Continue reading How Cancer Saved My Marriage
Like with most of my blog posts, they usually come about because of conversations that I have with others. Today one of my Twitter followers asked me what my thoughts were about people in unhealthy relationships. Specifically, she has a friend that is in an unhealthy relationship who just recently accepted a marriage proposal from her boyfriend. He proposed all in an effort to “make … Continue reading Love Without a Limit: When Is It Time To Let Go?
I’ve gone thru this many, many times. I’ve been with my husband since I was 20 and I can’t even begin to tell you how many times we broke up. Break ups can sometimes be positive because it allows both parties to take a step back and really look at the relationship with open eyes. It allows you to see if your life would be … Continue reading Break Up to Make Up: When Should You Stay & When Should You Go
To my pleasant surprise I was in the company, of a very gallant suitor over the weekend. Not only was I impressed by his personality, but just the sheer enjoyment he seemed to have at courting me and spending time with me. So often, we are misled into thinking that great guys with old school morals aren’t out there. Last night, I found out there … Continue reading Chivalry: Does It Still Exist??
“Hello”, I say into the receiver as I answer my work phone. “Look at my facebook page”, my sister replies back to me from the other end of the phone. “Why?”…”You’ll see”, she says. I log into my facebook account and click on my sister’s page. I read her FB status: ”1 out of every 10 people are born gay. That means 1 out of … Continue reading The Gay Debate: Is It Really a Choice?
I came across this arcticle while surfing the internet and thought it was an interesting read so I wanted to share it with you all. It’s from a man’s perspective so fellas let me know if you agree with the author’s reasoning and ladies feel free to add your 2 cents too. Enjoy! ********************************************************* Good morning/afternoon/evening ladies and gentlemen. The last time I wrote for … Continue reading What Makes A Man Commit??
The sun shone bright on her skin. It penetrated deep within her pores warming up her soul just like his kiss used to. Stimulating parts within her that she didn’t even know existed. This was love. Hot, steamy, intoxicating; lost in her own thoughts on a cloud so high that she never wanted to come down. She floated in and out of his love, always … Continue reading Soul Colored Love
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