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Love, Relationships

Love Without a Limit: When Is It Time To Let Go?

Like with most of my blog posts, they usually come about because of conversations that I have with others. Today one of my Twitter followers asked me what my thoughts were about people in unhealthy relationships. Specifically, she has a friend that is in an unhealthy relationship who just recently accepted a marriage proposal from her boyfriend. He proposed all in an effort to “make … Continue reading Love Without a Limit: When Is It Time To Let Go?

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Love, Relationships

Break Up to Make Up: When Should You Stay & When Should You Go

I’ve gone thru this many, many times. I’ve been with my husband since I was 20 and I can’t even begin to tell you how many times we broke up. Break ups can sometimes be positive because it allows both parties to take a step back and really look at the relationship with open eyes. It allows you to see if your life would be … Continue reading Break Up to Make Up: When Should You Stay & When Should You Go

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Love, Relationships

Chivalry: Does It Still Exist??

To my pleasant surprise I was in the company, of a very gallant suitor over the weekend. Not only was I impressed by his personality, but just the sheer enjoyment he seemed to have at courting me and spending time with me. So often, we are misled into thinking that great guys with old school morals aren’t out there. Last night, I found out there … Continue reading Chivalry: Does It Still Exist??

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Love, Relationships, Sex

What Makes A Man Commit??

I came across this arcticle while surfing the internet and thought it was an interesting read so I wanted to share it with you all. It’s from a man’s perspective so fellas let me know if you agree with the author’s reasoning and ladies feel free to add your 2 cents too. Enjoy! ********************************************************* Good morning/afternoon/evening ladies and gentlemen. The last time I wrote for … Continue reading What Makes A Man Commit??

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Love

Forgiveness:: How Many of Us Know It??

HELLO! MY NAME IS FORGIVENESS….. SOME HAVE PUSHED ME ASIDE. I HAVE BEEN EXCLUDED FROM RELATIONSHIPS. I HAVE BEEN CAST ASIDE FROM FAMILY MEMBERS! BOSSES CURSE ME! I LIKE TO BELIEVE THAT MY PURPOSE IS WORTH GOOD. I HAVE BEEN PUT HERE BY GOD! WHY IS IT SO HARD TO ACCEPT ME? AM I NOT YOUR FRIEND? I’VE TRAVELLED CENTURIES. I’VE SEEN HURRICANES, TORNADOES, TYPHOONS, … Continue reading Forgiveness:: How Many of Us Know It??

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When It Comes To Love Can We Choose Who We Fall In Love With?

As humans we are born with the gift of choice! From the time we are children, we begin to grow into ourselves. We do this by choosing which toys we like to play with the most, which friends we like best and even which foods we eat. As we grow older our choices demand greater contemplation. With age comes the realization that what we choose … Continue reading When It Comes To Love Can We Choose Who We Fall In Love With?

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First-Date Sex:: Is there a double standard?

  I think anyone who is an adult has had “First Date Sex”. Regardless of the level of respect we have for ourselves, I think at least once, we have all been swept away in a steamy moment. Now, does this qualify as a bad move? I think it does in regards to the role a woman plays. Though we feel we are mature enough … Continue reading First-Date Sex:: Is there a double standard?

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